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Pandora’s Box In 2018: Sexual Harassment

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As we say goodbye to 2017 and it’s many scandals and allegations, men start 2018 off by gazing into the maw of one of last year’s worst monsters to rear its ugly head: Sexual Harassment. Today’s post will cover the many sexual harassment allegations and what exactly that means for men in the workplace. Yes, that includes you.

Since October of 2017, the media has been bombarded with allegations of sexual harassment, sexual abuse, and even rape. The targets of these allegations are almost exclusively prominent men in society. From directors to music moguls, and even news reporters, it seems like any man doing well for themselves isn’t safe. However, most if not all things in society have what I like to call a “trickle” effect. Just because these scandals involve high society and the mega-rich doesn’t mean that we little folk won’t be next in line to feel the repercussions of this seemingly endless issue.

Before I continue with the article I am going to go ahead and provide a bit of a disclaimer. I am not here to discuss innocence or guilt and I am not here to say whether or not things like sexual harassment exist. However, I will say that I obviously don’t believe every single accusation is legitimate nor do I believe all of them are false. This article will discuss in detail what will more than likely happen to the work-place and how you can avoid being in hot water in the future.

By now you’re probably wondering, “I get it, sexual harassment is bad but how does a handful of rich men getting touchy and grabby have to do with me? I work as a [insert job title here] for Pete’s sake”. I’m glad you asked stranger because you are in for one hell of a surprise when I tell you what is going to happen at your workplace, possibly in the exact order I list it.

Holiday Parties will be heavily restricted or discontinued entirely: I have never been much of an office party goer but for those of us that love to hang loose with our coworkers and have a drink or two, you might find that your company isn’t really in the celebrating mood anymore. In fact, a few companies have already decided that maybe holiday parties aren’t the best thing to have considering whats happening in the news lately. Others that are still holding festivities have heavily limited the amount of alcohol available to its employees out of fear that their employees will do something they will later regret. Speaking of fear…

Men won’t be walking on eggshells, they will be walking on sharpened glass: In a western society as a whole, men have to watch what they do, say and act around women out of pure fear of somehow being offensive. This will be amplified by 500 percent in the workplace because as of right now women can simply point a finger in your general direction and get you in a large amount of trouble in a short amount of time. Which brings me to my next point.

Men’s Careers Will End…Quickly: So, if you’ve worked your ass off all your life and got that shiny new job title. Congratulations! Unfortunately, you said “Hello” to the new girl in accounting the wrong (normal) way and now you’ve been fired regardless of the fact that you didn’t actually do anything wrong.

In the company’s eyes, it’s better to be overly safe than sorry. Think of it as seeing a spider the size of a watermelon crawling along your ceiling and you proceeding to burn your house down in an attempt to kill it…yep that’s you. Even if your company promises there will be an investigation, chances are there won’t be. At least not one to find out if you did, in fact, do anything wrong.

Unfortunately, when men are accused of a crime of sexual nature the only way they can have their name cleared is if the woman in question says that she lied but even when that is the case, the man who was wrongly defamed almost never returns to their former glory. Just ask the many promising athletes who have lost their scholarships and enrollment privileges. In fact, I have such a big rant on this specific point alone, that it will be an entirely different post.

Gender Segregation: As silly as it may sound, companies may start incorporating spaces specifically designated for men and women respectively. Even if they don’t, male employees themselves will more than likely separate themselves willingly to prevent any false accusations with their names coming across their bosses desk. Of course, who could blame any guy who doesn’t want to lose their jobs for no reason?

In conclusion, these predictions are almost an inevitability. I am almost certain many of you are more than likely experiencing some of these issues now. Make no mistake that this will get much bigger than it already is and you should be prepared to take a mandatory sexual harassment class sometime in the near future if you haven’t already. In the near future, I’ll be discussing ways to foolproof your career from being derailed by the sexual harassment train that will be blowing through your company. In addition, I’ll fill you in on my exact opinion of these allegations and what they really are. Until then stay safe gentlemen and Happy New Year.

Also, I know, I know. I have a ton of questions and comments to respond to. In fact I plan on addressing a few of the questions I’ve gotten from many of you as separate posts. Just give me some time.

 

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The Ultimate Man’s Guide To Modern Hypergamy

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It’s no secret men have the damnedest time truly understanding the inner workings of the female psyche. Guys are taught from an early age that being nice, supportive, and friendly will almost certainly land them a faithful mate. However this behavior has only landed the vast majority of men in the category of creep while seemingly opposite behavior actually works. Which leaves nice guys everywhere wondering how exactly does a woman choose her partners. Well my friends we have all the answers in today’s post but first I must warn all who read this. The truth is not pretty, it can be extremely harsh and ultimately painful. Never the less it’s nothing compared to the pain of living a lie for years.

I’d like to introduce you to a term that the uninitiated have probably never heard of, the term is called “Hypergamy”. Hypergamy is defined as the act of marrying someone wealthier or of higher status than yourself. While not gender specific the term is more times than not pointed towards women because status and wealth make up vital parts of their total attraction to males.  Think of hypergamy as a giant tree that every woman must climb, and every branch in that tree represents a male.

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As you can see as a man’s income increases so does the level of attraction from the women he interacts with. However this is only a basic understanding of hypergamy and most guys would dismiss this information without really thinking about it. So to help men truly understand this we will cover this down to it’s core. How and where it starts, your role in it, and even real world examples to learn from.

The Three Pillars of Hypergamy

Modern hypergamy is built on three pillars. One pillar is innate while the other two are taught as young girls mature into women. I’ll let the diagram below explain things more clearly.

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By now you are probably starting to put two and two together. I can imagine the light bulb turning on as you travel back in time and analyze your past encounters with women. Maybe you realize why you were or weren’t so successful with them in high school. Better yet maybe you realize that those that aren’t up to a woman’s standard are considered creeps, perverts, and potential rapists but this is a topic for another day.

No Place To Go But Up

It’s important to keep in mind that once a woman has climbed to a certain height in the tree she absolutely will not climb down to a lower level. It should also be noted there are women that will do just about anything to secure their branch on that tree. Marriage and children are usually the most effective ways for a woman to secure a portion of wealth for men. When the relationship eventually goes sour the legal system will more often than not give a portion of the man’s wealth to the former wife.

Alimony and child support will keep the woman at their desired standard of living until they find the next eligible suitor. Make no mistake this is not isolated to those that are considered wealthy, this happens to men from all walks of life and levels of income.

Men Ultimately Lose In This System

Many men fall prey to this system and the real kicker is that it’s not widely spoken about. Well no need to fear because I am going to go over three mini case studies of the system at work.  Let’s take a look at our victims:

Dwight Howard: 29 year old profession NBA player. He’s got money, looks, and status which is something every woman is looking for. This man most likely has women throw themselves at him every hour of every day. Unfortunately this man has also managed to spawn 8 children in the span of 6 years between 6 different women. This is not the behavior of a man looking to start a family, this is a man that has been caught in the hypergamy trap…8 times.

Evander Holyfield: 52 year old retired professional boxer. 11 children with 9 different women, again not your typical family man behavior. Although it is the behavior of a wealthy bachelor that just happened to get caught and the reckless behavior has lost him over 300 million.

Calvin Murphy: 66 year old retired NBA player. He has 14 children with 9 different women need I say more here? No on plans to have this many children with so many different women, the amount of legal, alimony, and child support bills must be staggering for this former professional.

I think at this point it’s starting to sink in how the hypergamy system works. The real kicker is the fact these gentlemen are not even married to any of the women they have conceived these children with. This means love and companionship were not a factor and unfortunately that is how it is for most men that get sucked into the system. In a later post I will discuss the adverse effects that modern hypergamy and feminism have on males. Until then readers.

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